| Location | Belfast |
| Age | 26 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 14/01/1980 |
| Date of Death | 16/03/2006 |
| Visitors | 3,165 since 31/08/2008 |
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Well what can I say about Paul he was the best son, brother nephew, cousin and friend.
I know that everyone who knew him loved his great sense of humour and mischievous manner. There are many stories that I could tell you about Paul but I am not going to go there as we all have our own special happy memory of him.
I want you all to remember him for his good nature, big heart and that cheeky grin he had.
Paul loved to live, loved life and most of all loved enjoying life and had time for everyone. When he talked to anybody he gave them his full attention and listened to what they had to say. He made up his own mind about people and never judged them.
His most popular saying to me, mum or dad was "will you stop worrying, when your times up your times up and you can't change that no matter what you say or do, so I’m going to enjoy my life and live it to the full". That is exactly what he did he enjoyed every second of every day right up until 9.25pm on the 16th March 2006.
Paul was an angel lent to our family for 26 years. When he died we all went into shock, no one could take it in and even to this day it is so hard to accept.
He was 26 years old when he died but the memories that he left behind are ours to keep.
He was full of energy, had time for fun and love for all.
Our little family has not been the same and never will be with out him. He is missed and loved every second of every day not just by our family but by everyone that knew him.
I will always remember the last thing that he said to me. I was standing in our kitchen and he had just come in after a few drinks and was in one of his "let’s annoy Marion moods", he was winding me up and making me laugh. He was going on about me going down to Donegal for St. Patrick’s Day but I couldn't go. When I told him this he said to me "well just remember you’re my sister and I love you". He planted a kiss on my check and with that cheeky smile of his said "lend me a feg".
Who could have asked for a better last memory to be left with? One that I will keep locked in my heart until we meet again.
He is up there with our brother Thomas and I know the 2 of them are the ones that are holding us together.
All I can think of is if Thomas is anything like Paul then there will be non stop laughter in heaven. The craic would be fantastic.
To say how much I miss him I would not be able to put into words. He was not only my brother but one of my best friends. Yes we had our arguments but always laughed them off and to be honest I miss the fighting with him.
There is still so much going on surrounding his death and still so many lies but Paul from me to you we are getting there. I will fight for you right up until the end and that is a promise.
So for now my wee brother, take care, stay near and visit me in my dreams to make me laugh and maybe have an argument (only joking, just visit me and give me a hug and a smile).
Your forever sister and friend.
Marion oxoxox
PS You and Thomas take care of each other and don't be giving the grandparents too much hassle!
Happy Birthday wee bro, hope you party just the same as when you were here, you may but the angels some earplugs as I know when the rap music starts it will be full volume, love and miss you loads, M oxoxox
Miss you
Well my wee bro, I miss you more now than ever before, I know you are with me but today is very hard, maybe Im just feeling sorry for myself but with everything that is happening I feel really alone without you, as you know mum is in hospital and i am scared in case they say that there is something more wrong with her and that is why they cant find anything, i need someone to say this too and I hate writing this on a computer, I wish you were here, you and I were a team and together we got through everything, Im sitting here waiting on your text to say happy bday sis but I know it is silly but after 5 years I do still wait :) Missing you more than you know, stick with me Paul. love you always your one and only sis M ox
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Miss u
Cant believe it is 5 years since you went, feels like only yesterday when they knocked on the door to tell us, love and miss you more that anyone could know, enjoy your day oxoxoxo Marion
Hi
Well Paul sorry I have not been on to here in such a long time but as you know from where you are there is so much going on down here and I know you are helping me through it. So you now have Granda with you, give him a big hug from me, you know that you broke his heart when you passed, he never got over you going, you were granny and granda's blue eye and you have them both with you now, you take care of both of them for us until we are all together again, you know what I would give anything for an hour of your time to talk things over but to tell you the truth if I got that hour I would either make you take me with you or keep you here and never let you leave me again, you know you are missed so much down here, nothing is the same and the empty chair still sits there without you,.
I love and miss you everyday your big sis Marion oxoxoxoxo
Hi
Well Paul if you had of still been here you would have been enjoying the fantastic weather we are getting. This is the weather that you loved, warm sunny days, with your 3/4's on your and white t-shirt while you tanned away enjoying wee bottle of bud or WKD lol. You are always on my mind every single day. Will you help me to sort a few things out, I know Im asking you this but you know I wouldnt if i didnt need your help. Maybe there is lite at the end of the tunnel kid. Hope your having as good of weather up there as we are down here.
Love and miss you loads.
Your one and only sis Marion oxoxox
FOREVER YOUNG, FOREVER MY BROTHER, FOREVER 26 .OXOXOXOXOXO
Sorry
Hi Paul
1st of all I want to say I am sorry that I have not been on this site in such a long time, this is my doing as I am finding it very hard to be with out you. I miss you Paul more than anyone can know. I miss your smile, your voice, your laugh but most of all I miss you. I wish that I could have that one second in time where everything rewinds back to the good old days and we could laugh again. Your blue eyes, long eyelashes and unbelievable smile has gone from this world to the next and they have you now until we are together again. I know that you are with me always as my heart still beats and my mind still remembers you. You were the one person that I never thought would go but only the best go and GOD took the best that night. I want you to know that you will never be forgotten by me or by anyone.
So my beautiful brother rest on a cloud of love from your one and only sis Marion PS kiss Thomas for me and let him know that he is missed so dearly also.
Love you both until the end of time your one and only sis Marion ox
From your mum
To Paul
My darlng son Paul
Its now 4 years when my world just fell apart, I know the truth of what happened that night, I know that you both were both murdered I have fought so hard to get the truth but of course as you know these people will not tell the truth, sometimes I wished I had brought you up to have hatred in your heart because you just loved everyone, you never had a bad word to say about anyone, you never put anyone down, no matter what they said or did, and you never allowed me to say anthing wrong about anyone, you always said they had their own lives to live, but that was you, and I am so proud of you, there could never be a prouder mother than what you made me, I know you are in heaven, I know you did no wrong, I want you to be happy because you deserve to be the happiest person there, I thank you for picking me to be your mum, and I thank God for the years I had with you, I would not change a econd, God Bless you son, stay close by me, love and miss you so much, your one and only mum oxo
Love and miss you
Well Paul, I hope you and Thomas had a great Christmas and New Year up there with the rest of the family. Its not the same down here without you but we have to take each day as it comes even though is gets no easier. You were thought about every min of the holidays but thats nothing new your thought about every day any way. Hate this time of year as soon as Christmas finishes your birthday is here then your anniversary. You would have been 30 this month what a celebration that would have been if you still would have been here.
Well I let you go for now but I will write more soon.
Take care my wee bro as I love you and tell Thomas I love and miss him too.
Happy New Year to you both and the rest of the family.
Love your one and only sis Marion oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxox
Hi Paul
Just letting you know that I will not be on for a few days but you probably already know we are heading to New York to do some christmas shopping. Wish you were here as I would have brought you back all the gear you always wanted.
You know how much I love and miss you but I always have to say it.
Talks soon
Marion oxoxoxoxox
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